广交朋友好升职

如果不积极主动地在工作中努力结交朋友、培养友谊，与同事打成一片，不仅会显著影响工作热情、工作效率和成就感，或许还会降低获得升值的机会，结果无异于自毁前程。
你是否工作太忙，甚至连在同事的办公室门口稍作停留，闲聊几句或相约共赴午餐的时间都没有？或者你认为工作就是工作，一切公事公办？如果你这么想，就得要小心了：不在工作中努力结交朋友、培养友谊，或许就等于自毁前程。

    近期的一项研究发现，积极建立办公室友谊、工作任劳任怨并经常组织办公室活动的人们在接下来两年中获得升职的可能性要高出40%。“你在工作中付出多少，直接影响到你在工作中得到多少，”《幸福优势：推动事业成功的七大积极心理学原则》（The Happiness Advantage: The Seven Principles of Positive Psychology That Fuel Success and Performance at Work）的作者肖恩•阿克称。

Are you too busy to stop by your colleague's office to chat or go to lunch? Or are you someone who keeps work relationships strictly business? Be warned: If you're not reaching out to make and nurture friendships at work, you're probably hurting your career.

    Recent research finds that people who initiate office friendships, pick up slack for their co-workers, and organize workplace social activities are 40% more likely to get a promotion in the subsequent two years. "How much you give at work directly affects how much you get at work," says Shawn Achor, author of The Happiness Advantage: The Seven Principles of Positive Psychology That Fuel Success and Performance at Work.